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Gaye Holud

The Bengali turmeric ceremony — haldi from the groom's home is carried to the bride and applied to her.

Also known as: gaye holud, gae holud, bengali haldi, turmeric

What it means

Gaye Holud ('turmeric on the body') is the Bengali haldi. Turmeric paste used on the groom is traditionally carried to the bride's home and applied to her, symbolically linking the two households and blessing the couple with an auspicious glow.

What happens

  1. 1Turmeric is first applied to the groom at his home.
  2. 2That turmeric, with gifts and sweets, is taken in procession to the bride.
  3. 3The bride is bathed in turmeric by married women of the family amid ululation (ulu dhwani).
Applies to: Bengali Hindu
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More Hindu rituals

Roka / Tilak
The first formal commitment between the two families, marking that the match is settled.
Ganesh Puja
An opening prayer to Lord Ganesha to remove obstacles before the wedding rites begin.
Haldi
A turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom for a radiant glow and protection before the wedding.
Mehendi
Intricate henna is applied to the bride's hands and feet, surrounded by music and celebration.
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