What it means
Kanyadaan ('gift of the daughter') is regarded as one of the most sacred acts a parent can perform. The bride's father places her hand in the groom's, entrusting her to him and his family, and the groom accepts the responsibility of her care and partnership.
What happens
- 1Performed at the mandap before the sacred fire, led by the pandit.
- 2The bride's father (and mother) place the bride's hand into the groom's hand.
- 3Water and offerings are often used to seal the act.
Good to know
- Some modern couples adapt or reinterpret this ritual; sensitivity to the family's wishes matters.
Applies to: North Indian Hindu, Gujarati Hindu, Marwari Hindu, South Indian Hindu
This explanation is under review by a religious authority — a companion to, not a replacement for, your pandit.