Hindu · Post-wedding

Aeki Beki

A playful post-wedding game where the newlyweds search a tray of milk for a ring.

Also known as: aeki beki, ekibeki, ring game, kankan games

What it means

Aeki Beki is a light-hearted game played after the wedding: a ring (and coins) are dropped into a tray of milk coloured with vermilion and flowers, and the couple compete to find the ring. Tradition teases that whoever wins more rounds will 'rule the household' — a fun ice-breaker between the newlyweds and families.

What happens

  1. 1A ring is hidden in a tray of opaque coloured milk.
  2. 2The couple race to retrieve it over several rounds amid much cheering.
Applies to: Gujarati Hindu, North Indian Hindu
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More Hindu rituals

Roka / Tilak
The first formal commitment between the two families, marking that the match is settled.
Ganesh Puja
An opening prayer to Lord Ganesha to remove obstacles before the wedding rites begin.
Haldi
A turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom for a radiant glow and protection before the wedding.
Gaye Holud
The Bengali turmeric ceremony — haldi from the groom's home is carried to the bride and applied to her.
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